You know, it's funny, I was looking at my entries and I only write in here if I'm really sad, extremely happy, or downright mad. Today, I am writing just because I can. My life is going pretty well, I'm content, trying to be joyful, and I am continually being blessed.
Lately I have been terrified of school, miserable because of friends, and you know what I realized? It doesn't matter. It never mattered. I could not go to college, and that's irrelevent. I could never have another friend, but I'll be alright. God has a plan for me, and it's going to happen. I don't need to worry about anything. Crappy stuff happens to everyone, and you can do one of like 5 things.
1. You can dwell on it and never move on.
2. You can move on, but occasionally think about it and get upset.
3. You can move on and pretend like it never happened.
4. You can kill yourself or the person responsible for whatever happened to you.
5. YOU CAN REALIZE THAT IT'S IN THE PAST, YOU CAN'T CHANGE IT, BUT YOU DON'T WANT TO FORGET IT BECAUSE YOU LEARNED SOMETHING AND GREW FROM IT, EVEN IF IT DID HURT FOR A TIME.
and here's a piece of advice: don't give advice on something you don't fully understand, you may end up making things worse than they are. only ask questions that need to be asked because people like to hide away when they're scared. and always be willing to listen, you never know when someone might need you.
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